Many of you have been exploring aspects of your personal alchemy for a while, creating loving relationships, abundance and open mindedness. Think about many ways you have experimented with transforming the negative ballast accumulated in your life into the golden wisdom. You regularly use your body as a unique laboratory where you, an extraordinary alchemist, are transforming patterns of anger, frustrations and fear into excitement, acceptance, and creative flow.

This is an excerpt from my new book The Ultimate Love Affair

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Connect to your inner truth barometer by answering a few questions:

1. How often do you think about doing, or actually do something that you do not value?

2. Do you support something or someone else at your own expense?

3. What motivates you to go against your gut?

Often, we feel resentful and criticize something in order to separate from it. Do you know that when you feel separate, you sense even more need to blame someone or something for feeling disconnected? You start looking for faults to justify your disengagement.

How can you intimately relate to someone if you are losing yourself in your relationship? Where R U?

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How often are you compelled to dress like others?
How much do you care what “they” think ?
Can you act spontaneously, follow your intuition or do things “your way” freely?

Making decisions that are right for you is not easy when you are considering other people feelings. Making decisions that involve others is one of the major challenges in building a successful Marriage Puzzle. Balancing relationships in your Parenting Puzzle with complications of building your Financial Puzzle may feel like unmanageable task.

Did you ever set with a box of little puzzle pieces, trying to figure out how the whole picture will look like? Our marriages are just like these puzzles within the bigger puzzle called humanity. We are just the little puzzle pieces in the big picture, trying to find our place in the larger picture of life.

This morning started with sunny brightness behind my light green curtains. The day was clear and so was my schedule. I was planning to focus on completing this article and later to work on my new book. Then phone rang and a cheerful voice from California started its 30 minute conversation.

 

The picture of me that I was receiving did not make any sense and the conversation was becoming difficult. It felt like I was trying to find a little space in the wall of words to share what was really happening here in Chicago, but California was having a good time sharing what it thought about me and my life, so there was no real space, attention or authentic desire for the heart to heart conversation. I felt a huge energetic pit hole opening in front of me and employed all my senses to help me stand on my feet while watching my spirit falling lower, and lower, and lower. The cheerful voice kept explaining how un-enthusiastic, ungrateful and undirected I was and how much it has given and invested in me. It was becoming frustrated and confused with me (after all that has been done for me) that I was still me, being and doing what I felt was right and representative of my values.

The day is fast approaching and some of us get very creative and playful. It is like getting an official permission to be romantic, sexy and expressive about our feelings. Some of us become a bit antsy and even frustrated in response to the pressure to show up in the most intimate, and, at the same time, vulnerable caring way.

What am I going to give her, so she understands my message?
What should I give him, so he feels I really care about him, but do not support his life style?
How can I impress her if I do not have much cash to spare?

www.energy4action.com    www.matrixalchemy.com
My relationship movie channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/lanapritzker?feature=mhum
The Shift, as I know it, is leading us into a deeper perceptive about personal responsibility, personal space, and freedom of choice that are integral part of the new level of current awakening. We are learning about our personal need for freedom of Being and discovering that it includes the process of letting others BE no matter where we want them to go

 Working with many couples who were planning to get married (www.themarriagepuzzle.com), married couples and those who were on the verge of separation, I had a unique opportunity to notice the common patterns that showed up again and again in every interaction I observed. These were common habits of “pleasing others” and resenting it at the same time mixed with the need “to be right” and the need to prove yourself.  These behaviors were considered by at least one person in each couple to be a necessity for peaceful co-existence that naturally occurred at the beginning of the relationship. Yet as relationship progressed, the habit of not communicating transparently, keeping your truth to yourself and doing things that did not feel right in order to stay in relationship actually ruined the relationship or attracted the wrong person as a partner. This strategy did not work in a long run.

www.energy4action.com    www.matrixalchemy.com
My relationship movie channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/lanapritzker?feature=mhum

Just recently I’ve conducted a workshop during which we have been exploring aspects of personal alchemy. We’ve experimented with ways to transform the led within our life into the gold of loving relationships, connection to our inherent nature and expansion of consciousness. Today I would like to share my findings about the mystery of personal Alchemy and how to apply your innate abilities to transform the energy of struggle and frustration into the energy of pleasure and intimate relating in your life.