Venus moves into a  retrograde cycle once every two years. It is a less frequent aspect causing us to feel caught off guard by the impact of this cycle. As an astrologer, I work with deep karmic issues in relationship sessions, and during the Venus retrograde, I witness more than the usual relationship turmoil. It's often a time when individuals  seek to realign major patterns in their love life. Venus governs love and relationship and also  our values concerning self worth, body image, and money.

There are can be aftershocks once the Venus retrograde cycle is finished.  Relationships may go for a rocky ride, especially if conflict has been brushed under the rug.  These ignored issues, when brought to light, need repair. However, a deep sense of balance, trust, and renewed hope is most often restored. The Libra influence of the Venusian cycle helps to clarity issues regarding justice, peace, negotiation, and conflict resolution. 

When Venus was retrograde in early March through April we were each given an opportunity to review love, relationship, and self worth within the context of our personal values. You might check back during that time frame to review what was going on for you because for the rest of the year we can consciously heal those "under the rug" issues and rejuvenate the Venus connection within our relationships. In many cases we awaken together with fresh revelations, ready to approach a new level of intimacy and acceptance. Being in balance with Venus boosts our connection with heart, body, and soul with one another.

Health and body issues are also magnified during a Venus retrograde cycle due to its association with the zodiacal sign Taurus. An emphasis on self image, weight issues, and food may be brought to focus. For instance, women and men with eating disorders may seek a new path toward healing, or, it may be a time when an individual may regress, slumping backwards into long held patterns. If this was the case, you are reorganizing yourself, getting back to exercise, healthy eating and regained Self Love. (I gained six pounds during this recent retrograde!) I’m a Taurus, and those of us ruled by the planet Venus are acutely affected by this cycle. Food is often the sought out remedy when we are stressed and over worked! If you have sun, moon, or ascendant in Taurus or Libra, or have a strong Venus placement in your chart, it will serve you to watch for the Venus retrograde cycle. 

At a deep level, Venus may have roughed up the corners of your comfort zone in one way or another because the Venus Connection is our solid groundwork that underlies the network system of primal memories and our instinctual responses to love and self worth. This year, 2009, we are offered the opportunity to realign the force of the heart toward Awakened Love. Take care to continue on the path of self rejuvenation and health, and pay special attention to that which has been brought to your attention for relationship healing within your life.

I am very excited about the Sexual Energy Activation workshop at Big Bear Lake in California, September 7th through the 12th. It’s the “090909” countdown! It’s a perfect time to explore the spiritual as well as primal dimensions of sexuality and love. I will be sharing extensively about the beneficial influences of flower essences when used within a relationship and sexual context, and about love, and body image as well. This is a powerful time to meet the challenges of awakened intimacy in our everyday life. Until then… be true to your heart!

I hope to see you in September!

 Isha Lerner