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Many parents and teachers feels like they have lost connection with their teen.
If you have or had a child that is depressed you need to read this article.
What's going on with the teens of today?
Many parents and teachers feels like they have lost connection with their teen.
If you have or had a child that is depressed you need to read this article.
Also when you are a grown up who is dealing with depression you have to read this.
What's going on with the teens of today?
The
world is changing, it isn’t the way it used to be when you grew up,
when I grew up. The world is changing at a fast pace. The technology
has given us opportunities and new potentials that where never here
before. The creation of every individual human happens much faster.
That means that ideas are manifested sooner than before. Constructive creations and the destructive creations
enters our world. At the end all creations serve the same: the
evolution of humanity.
There are no problems: only opportunitys!
The teens of
today have got a lot more creative energy they need to express. Thanks
to the hard work you all did it is possible now to carry more and more
of your soul in a human body. That is cool, but also means creativity
needs to be expressed to stay healthy. That asks for new tools and new
ways of interacting in the world. The world is luckily changing now,
experiencing that the old systems doesn´t fit anymore. There is no
other choice for the world than change. Where there is change there is
resistance, so now we see all these labels popping up. Systems that are
getting even tighter and problems that seems to grow. More and more
people are changing their perspective and with that safe space for the
teens will be created as each second goes by. We will have to, or else
our institutions in ten years will be more overloaded with autistic,
hyperactive, depressed and aggressive children and teens. There already
is a big overload, warning us with big red signs. Luckily we see the
origin of this increase. We are the ones that can show how to empower
everyone. We are the ones that can show the alternatives in this world.
Waving guilt goodbye in a fear based world.
Over all we can say that morality is changing. The way many people experience guilt is different now. That seems to be frightening because guilt is a good reminder of wrong and right and allows us to stick to laws. But......... not when it´s fear based. Teens are carrying more and more of their soul in their body, they have a lot of love they carry within. Love, pure creative energy or in other words sexual energy needs to be expressed. Where there is love, there is no fear. Our human instinct will generally always tell us when we are in danger and give us the right fear signs when we need, no matter how advanced the soul is that is living in the body. It´s part of being human. There is also another kind of fear. The emotional kind of fear which so many of our rules and laws are based on.
That will not make so much impact on the teens. We asked for change and here it is!
It is often said that the new children don’t have any reference for guilt, and still I do hear around me a lot that children are feeling so guilty. You know why? Because people around them feel guilty!
Being sensitive it's easy to pick up emotions from others. Especially when you don't have the guilt inside yourself. Society demands that you feel guilty by doing or not doing certain things.
To not visit grandma every week is a burden, being totally relaxed with having a big tummy is a no go these days. So people around these teens feel uncomfortable, they are feeling guilty for what their child or student is doing. Teens feel that. They feel the guilt around them and almost they start to believe they have to feel guilty.
The same counts for fear. We have to be afraid that after good times bad times come, that we lose our savings in this recession. That sickness is really worse, and that we have to follow the rules the church made or else we go to hell.
To live in a world where most of the rules are fear based is a challenge. Especially when you feel no fear from yourself. It's so seductive to pick up the fear around you, and to doubt yourself what is wrong with you. Nothing at all ofcourse! There is one good medicine for this: passionpills! To do what makes you happy! It's so easy we almost can't believe it!
The outside world, especially the
media often shows us messages of fear. Teens are often very much in
touch with media. They watch television, internet, listen to radio,
have their mobilepones with internet, use their Ipods. It helps us to
choose carefully what messages we let in our energyfield. Especially when you
are sensitive. Being a teen, most likely you feel the urge to search
for boundaries and discover what life has to offer you. Everything must
been seen at least once, must have been experienced. That way you know
what you like and dislike.
My child is depressed. What can I do?
There are times your actions can have big consequences for others. Do you want to create constructive and express your love? Or do you feel destruction is the only option you have?
Let's take a look at the schoolshootings. That is a
horrible way of expressing hate, anger and despair.
How come this hate, anger and despair hasn't been noticed earlier?
This isn’t
strange when you see how schools are built. Many schools having
thousands of students. The teachers can't give the students a lot of
time. The classes are full with students that are easily bored.
The ethics of the students and life looks different than before. To
notice that there is something going on with your students isn't always
so easy. Many teens know how teachers want them to act. They know what
teachers want to hear.
To make a safe
space for these teens we have to take our pink sunglasses off, and need
to be prepared to look beyond our own paradigms.
We cannot
take any responsibility for the actions of other humans, young and old.
We aren't responsible for the teen that takes a gun to school and kills
students and teachers. We are responsible for our own actions, to
express our light and love. We can change so much by expressing our
passion and speak our truth. Where there is love there is no fear! We
can change the world by making a loving life ourselves no matter when
we are at work, at home or in the supermarket. I work in places with
teens who are in crisissituations, fear flows freely in the lives of my
clients. My clients can be agressive and
destructive. I learned one thing: where there is love there is no fear.
As long as I am in my passion, my envoirement is safe. By doing that
the energy in the room changes and there is no space for fear. I
believe that is creating safe space for others so they can heal
themselves.
I believe that the
teens of today are helped the most by warm loving multidimensional
souls, who see beyond. People like you and me. I believe that
psychiatrists and regular healthinstitutions can be even destructive,
due to the medication they give depressed teens and the labels they put
on them. Being aware of your multidimensionality and getting drugs is
almost a shortcut to hell. Not for everyone, but for many. It is harder
to stay centered and connected to your soul. It can be dangerous
because of the energetic disharmonys the medicine can bring. When your
teen is very sensitive the most important thing for your teen is to
stay centered.I
always will advise you as a parent to listen to your own intuiton to do
what feels the best for you. Every child is different. Every human has
got the right to choose for life or death. Young and old. There are
times due to energetic disbalance the humanpart of your child wants to
leave earth, but the soul isn't planning to leave. Most of the time
when your child is depressed it isn't time to leave mother earth yet.
Or your child has a new opportunity to choose. There are many
alternative healers who can help your child with making this choice and
have great tools to help your child with their energetic disbalance.
You can mail me for references. ellekerocks@gmail.com
There are
for many teens ways out of depression. There are many human angels who
are prepared to support them. While every parent would worry deeply
about their child, and probably with the right reasons, after all this
is about life and death, the one thing you help your child the most
with is trust. Trust your child they will choose what is fit for them.
It´s the most difficult thing you can experience as a parent. Mostly
because we know the brains of the teens aren't finished growing yet.
They cannot see properly what will be the outcome of their actions,
they can be impulsive not overseeing what the consequences of their
actions are. The most you can do as a parent is let your child
feel you trust totally the divine soul your child is. To let your
child feel you don´t take responsibility for the soul of your child,
that it's an independent free spirit in a human body making it's own
choices and creations. This can be so difficult. There can be times the
humanpart of your child wants to die to go to home, and the soul of the
child who tells you it is not yet time. It can be a good reminder for
your child to let him feel home is in our hearts, and can be created
right here on earth. Show them how wonderfull the world is, by making
heaven on earth yourself. As a parent you cannot sit still, but you
will have to walk your talk by experiencing yourself how wonderfull
life on earth is. There is no greater example in the entire universe
for your child than that!
Many times all
these teens need is a safe space to express themselve in, so the
creative energy can be expressed. It's pure energy from their soul. The
outwards movement of expression will make the magnetism of their body
turn around, making the energy move outwards instead of inwards. The
inward movement of this creative energy is what can cause depression,
anxiety, high bloodpressure and more illness. I believe many of the
illnesses humans experience are energy diseases and/or a lack of giving
the human body what it needs. Finding out what is serving your spirit
and body the best is a helpfull tool in experience balance in your life.
Knowing now that
creations goes fast these days means that teens also easily create an
environment that will match with their vibrational energy. Changes can
go so fast.Of course the
teens of today are very gifted with their creative abilities! Imagine
how the world will look in 10, 20 years with these children popping in!
In
this article I focused on purpose a bit more on the challenges that may
occur living with so much creative energy. But ofcourse the gifts that
these teens bring us, are enormous!
That
makes it even more sad when such talented people are denying the
grandness they are. It are challenging lessons, tickling the soul to go
beyond and experiencing new things after lived so many lives on earth.
Their lives just have to be challenging to make the yourney to earth
interesting enough! Isn't that funny!
We’ll never know what for instance a murderer or burglar already mastered in his lifetimes, this could be his last life on earth working with his last lifelesson.
Live from the laptop:
The last months have been full of enormous change in my life. As each day goes by I am flowing more and more into my passions. Projects are being manifested and dreams are coming true. Right now.
As
I am expressing more creative energy, my soul comes more and more into
my body.
I
realised that the experiences I had as a child and a teen served the
growth of my soul. But I also realised another important thing: a lesson
learned, is a lesson that needs to be shared.
People have said it to me before and I thought: well yeah allright bladiebla know that, as long as I can play all is well.
But actually
I didn't realised on a deeper level that I have learned many lessons in
this lifetime.
The last month I realised I have something from value to teach. With the pain I felt that comes with growing, the thing that supported me was the knowing that I would share my experiences with others who are experiencing the same.
I
also felt that we always feel what we can handle. With that I feel pain
is something that comes with change, and to suffer is a choice. The
loving acceptance of breathing in and out all the way to our tummy rocks a thousand times and is
one of the most easy ways to heal ourselves.
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